
True Love Blog

Wednesday, July 29, 2026
Blue Poetry
We are to have no fantasy.
But isn't that the same as having a dream?
Fantasy interacts with your physical body. Dreams do not.
Fantasy over excites. Dreams remain quiet and deliberate.
Fantasy throws your mind off, imagines what will not be.
Dreams have a quality of thoughtful repose, of what may happen of its own accord.
Be a dreamer, not a fantasizer.
Fantasy sets you up for disappointment. Dreams come true.



Highly Trained by my wife
Back in '82, I married into another country, another race, another language and culture, another way of doing things, simple things, like organizing kitchen shelves, tying shoes, shopping for bread, all different... when I married my beloved from Japan, Yoshi.
We were introduced by our favorite pastor but could not be more opposite, except our birth dates which shoulder each other. Our marriage turned out to be a blessing. I'm a pastor, an uncle, and a grandpa. Stick around, you might learn something from our boiling marriage stew.
